Teens in Crisis
So, this is my third attempt at writing this blog – about why One Pearl supports Saving Teens in Crisis Collaborative (STICC) – and I am finding it very difficult to know where to begin or what to say. It is because of an “event” in my family that I came to know of John Reuben and STICC. So here goes …
Over the course of years, I had been dealing with many issues concerning one of my sons, to no avail. Eventually, feeling left with no other recourse, he was sent to a wilderness therapy camp and from there to a therapeutic boarding school. In rereading that sentence, I chuckle at how simple those words sound. There is/was nothing simple about that time at all. It was one of the most, if not the most, crushing experiences of my life to date.
To have your child taken, to see him for only 11 days of his entire 16th year, to wonder how he was; when would he come home to live again; what he was thinking; how much did he hate me; would he ever forgive me; would he ever understand … why he had to go; was he warm and dry; was he homesick; did he feel utterly alone and abandoned; to continually question every decision pertaining to him made over the years; to feel so helpless, at a loss of what to do, how to act, what to say to people who asked about him, fighting tears every time his name was mentioned … all these thoughts and so many more raced through my head constantly, making life so very hard to bear. For months after he left, I could not leave my home, so tortured was I with grief over his departure and literally sick with worry. These thoughts and more roiled through my head, over and over and over. Finally one day, something snapped. I had another son at home, who needed me. I had to get up and start living again, or at least try to pretend to live again, for his sake as well as my own.
Months before my son was taken, we took a trip of a lifetime together, just the two of us. It was during this trip that I began to design some jewelry, and had success. I decided to try and make this business of designing/selling jewelry an income source for donating money to organizations that support causes that I believe in. Having risen from “the dead,” I was energized and ready to go – deciding to pour myself into this business.
The first non-profit that I became affiliated with was STICC. I met John through word of mouth, found out that he had received his 501 (c) 3 status just a month before we first talked. I called him immediately, he drove down from his home in Massachusetts and we met at Rein’s Deli in Vernon, CT. We clicked upon meeting. I knew that he felt the same way that I did about these kids who need help, but cannot get it because their family/they cannot afford the treatment needed. I found my first non-profit that I wanted to help through my business.

















